Part 3 of 7
Money, Right Now
Immediate financial footing
Her own account open, emergency assistance requested, paycheck secured without leaks
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Your money, in your name
Open an individual bank account if you haven't already
Use your private email and the new address or a trusted person's. If you set up DoorDash or Instacart approval in Stage 1, connect it here — income can start this week.
Ask about emergency financial assistance
Programs vary by county, and shelter caseworkers know exactly what's available locally — that's their job, ask them first. Dialing 2-1-1 also finds local help anywhere in the country.
If you're employed
Update HR and payroll carefully
Change your address and direct deposit — but tell HR directly that no information should be given to anyone who calls asking about you, including a spouse. Some employers inadvertently disclose new addresses to a former partner on the phone.
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