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Safety Planning / Making Your Exit

Still there, planning. Quiet steps toward leaving safely.

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This is a quiet, step-by-step plan for leaving safely. Nothing here has to happen today. Every step is small on purpose — designed to be done gradually, without anyone noticing.

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If you are in danger right now, call 911. To talk through your situation with someone 24/7: National Domestic Violence Hotline, 1-800-799-7233, or text START to 88788.

  • National Domestic Violence Hotline

    Talk it through with an advocate, any time. Free and confidential. They can also help you find a shelter near you.

    24 hours, every day

    Call 1-800-799-7233

    Text START to 88788

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    Checked 25 August 2026

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The steps

  1. Part 1

    Building Your Exit Fund (Quietly)

    A hidden financial reserve, built slowly enough that nothing looks unusual

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  2. Part 2

    Your Document Bag

    A grab bag of essential documents, gathered gradually

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  3. Part 3

    Digital Safety Check

    Knowing what he can see before planning anything

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  4. Part 4

    The Physical Plan

    Decisions made in advance so nothing has to be decided in the moment

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  5. Part 5

    If Things Escalate Fast

    Permission and priorities when there's no time for the plan

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Closing

The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.

Psalm 34:18

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What is one small step from this list you can do this week without anyone noticing?

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How ready do you feel to keep going?

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